Tuesday, February 22, 2011

No More Diapers!

I didn't want to jinx anything while it was happening but we're happy to report Ruby is potty trained or as she says, "No more diapers!"

We've had a potty since her 18 month check up when our pediatrician suggested getting it just in case. Ruby could have cared less about it. She showed a teeny tiny bit of interest when Norah showed up potty trained. But, the interest was mostly in watching Norah pee rather than doing it herself. Then we booked a trip to Kauai in April and I fantasized about traveling and swimming diaper free. When I started researching potty training methods, I read an article about letting her walk around naked from the waist down while we were at home. Apparently going right to underpants is confusing for kids because they don't know the difference between diapers and underpants. What do you know? We'd leave her diaper off in the morning and she would use the potty.

I decided to give her a little practice time before officially starting the three day method. Thanks to my BFF the Internet, I came up with a special potty chart and prize to up the ante a bit. As soon as I had Bullseye in my possession, it was game on. Within a week, Ruby filled up her chart.



Once I knew she could do it, I planned the diaper fairy's visit for my Winter break. We weren't traveling so there would be plenty of time to stay close to home. Not only did the diaper fairy take all the diapers to other babies, she left some goodies for Ruby. The cupcakes were her favorite.



We started on Monday but I'm not counting that as her first real day. Apparently hosting a play date and going outside to see the neighborhood kids isn't a very good idea when you're learning how to use the potty. My bad =) Starting Tuesday, we stayed home by ourselves and she did fantastic! We went to the store on Wednesday, had friends over on Thursday, saw a movie on Friday and resumed our normal activities on Saturday.

In addition to the usual playing, reading, coloring, painting, dancing, singing, eating and sleeping, we had to get creative with our activities:













On Saturday night, Grandma O'Brien and her friend Judy were babysitting two girls from our neighborhood. We invited them over for a pizza and jammie movie party (or half sleepover as they called it). The girls decided it was Ruby's potty party.



She was already over the moon when Auntie showed up with a pair of Jessie boots to celebrate Ruby being a big girl. What a great Auntie!



We wrapped up the weekend with a visit to Toys R Us to let Ruby pick out her final present. She wanted a big girl baby doll with real hair and eyes that close. As soon as we got in the store, she found a rubber frog and was sold. We convinced her to check out the baby dolls just in case and found the perfect doll. Adam used the frog as leverage to get her to the register and out of the store. $13 later, Ruby was the proud owner of Baby Goo Goo and a rubber frog. It's hard to say which one she loves more.



We celebrated over dinner and called it a night. Phew. I didn't realize it was so exhausting to stay home all week.

P.S. Can you believe 2.5 years ago I didn't even say the word "poop" let alone devote an entire blog entry to the subject? Haha.

Monday, February 21, 2011

Santa Barbara

Adam and I went to Santa Barbara for the weekend. It pretty much rained from the moment we left home until the moment we left to drive home. Fortunately, rain or shine, it was a weekend without a toddler. We had to sleep in, relax in our hotel room, take naps, see a movie, eat slowly, and sit at bars having drinks. It was terrible =)

Ruby spent the weekend with Grandma O'Brien. Apparently it was just as terrible for the two of them.



As always, thanks Grandma!

Valentine's Day

We've been talking about Valentine's Day for months. It's not that big of a holiday but we were trying to help Ruby move on from Halloween and Christmas. Halloween was her all time favorite holiday. She was so sad it was over and that people took down their ghosts, spiders, black cats and witchy poos (her word). Lucky for us, they were all replaced with Christmas decorations and Santa Claus. She recovered fairly quickly. When Christmas was over, we were at a loss. We started talking about Valentine's Day. We told her it's a day you make hearts and tell people how much you love them. It's been a month and a half so I think she just forgot about the holidays but we wanted to make Valentine's Day special anyway.

After dinner on Sunday, Ruby made some of her own hearts.





After bedtime that night, Adam and I made her heart shaped breakfast and lunch.



Before he went to work, Adam gave her our special present for the day...her very own Tiana from The Princess and the Frog. She's been in love with Norah's for months. I told Adam she would go bananas for it. She did. According to Grandma O'Brien, "Loves Tiana! Keeps saying thank you daddy!" Great minds think alike. Norah gave her Belle from Beauty and the Beast that morning. The six princesses ate their heart shaped lunch together.



After I got home, Ruby and I made Valentine's Day dinner and dessert for Adam and Grandma O'Brien. I made the dough and frosting. She licked the beaters and helped with sprinkles.



Grandma O'Brien gave Ruby a Caillou piano book for Valentine's Day. She love, love, loved it. Norah did as well so they went on a shopping trip to get a second one the next day.



If that's not love, I don't know what is. Thanks Grandma!

Play Dates

We've been play dating with these kids (and their moms, baby brothers and soon to be baby brothers) since before they could walk or talk.



I am so thankful they are in our lives.